我和他认识快三个月了.我们以前分别都曾有过几年婚姻史.各自带一个小孩.他正直,有品味,顾家.但工作极忙,且有巨大的工作压力.我也是大学毕业,有一份还不错的工作.他希望他的妻子不工作,全身心的照顾家庭和孩子,且疼他照顾他如宝贝.他说:"你不会做饭,又不爱闻油烟味,自已的孩子都由你父母带,今后你做一顿饭可以,一直做下去你能行吗?不要把生活想得那么简单."他并不是请不起保姆,他认为一周可以请保姆彻底打扫两次卫生,但吃老婆做的饭才香.平时他极注意卫生,但有些挑剔.做爱时,他说:我们这样做对吗?请大家帮我分析一下:他现在是什么样的心理?如何才能更好的维护我们的关系,我该如何做呢?
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我没离过异，不大清楚这种状况该如何处理，如果他一定要你在家看孩子做饭洗衣做这些，让他看看＜男才女貌＞
热心网友
他需要的是全职太太，如果对他的要求您肯定无法接受，那么，建议您考虑与他分手。如果有可能进行说服工作（说服他改变主意），那就不妨尝试一下。如果没有沟通的饿可能，还是考虑分开的噩耗。
热心网友
他有恋母情结。
热心网友
其实可以一边工作一边顾及家里的呀,下班再做饭也行
热心网友
has he ever thought for you? are you clear what you want to be, what kind of life you want to have and what kind of person you want to stay with in future? while reading what you wrote, it seemed that you are not clear about yourself and your own life。 thatpeopleliveisnotjustforbeingalive:forfood, opleshouldcertainlyhavetheirownjobandkeeptheirownsocialcontactsjustlikeyouare, vingupallofthosemeansbeinginabigriskytoliveatunstablesituationeveryday。Canyoudothatjustforamanwhodoesn'treallylikeyou,butonlyneedasimplefemaletodowhatheneeds?thisisnotarightattitudetowardslife,and you already felt uncomfortable, and will not keep a balance with him in your relationship, since you are not a cheap waitress, who doesn't have any other skills or chances to do somethings else。you really have to change your way of thinking, when you re-start a relationship。 firstlythinkaboutyourself,i。e。whatdoyouwant。。。, n'talwaysfollowhisidea,asitisyourownlife,youshouldchooseyourselfallthetime,aslongasyouhaveagoodjob。timeisrunningveryfast,youhavenotimetotakethiskindrisk(again)bygivingupyourjobtobeasimplehousewifewhichanyfemalecanreplaceall that you wrote is about what he wants, you seem having no idea on how to have a happy life with which kind of man who suits yyyyyou!!!!thereisaprincipleoflifenomatterwhereintheworld,thatisneverquityourjobifyouwantrespectasahumanandkeeptherightstodowhatyouwantandtosay'no'towhatyoudon'tlike。Losingajobtodowhatyoudon'tlikeislikelivinginhell,youshouldnottry。everybodyknowsit, reover, yourcase,heisfarawayfromlovingsomeone,andwon'tbearealmanwhenhekeepsthinkingforhimself,nooneelse, all the time。 he will never change himself, but very possible change his partner, because he always keeps his job。after thingking over what you want and your ideas on your future life, you don't have to be afraid of telling him the truth, and if he gave up you because of this, he would not be the right man for you and not worth to be loved by you。keep clear mind to be yourself。 your future happpiness is in your hand, but if you lost you job, you could not control your own life any longer。make things clear that a good relationship or a true happy family need two people devote themselves to each other, not only one person asks another to do so。 It won't work, which everybody knows, especially the divorce people (he) should know。 talking about the Korean living style is very much stupid and an old fation, since even the Korean and the Japaness are changing and giving it up。 you should not be fooled by his words, since it only shows that he is too simple minded, and doesn't know outside the world at all。 (in Europe, if a woman accepted this kind of unbelievable requirement, people would look down her and see her like an idiot。think over carefully,and then tell him you won't give up working, and hope that you both could try your efforts together to make things work if he also would like to do so。 he should repect your choice, if he wants to have relationship with you。if you want to be happy again after your first marriage, you must keep clear mind and be strong to keep self-respect and make your own decision based on what yyyyyyyyyyyou want, which is the most important thing as a woman。take care。
热心网友
要么顺从他，要么改变他，要么高开他。看样子你是很舍不得他的，是不是?他是想要一个全职太太。
热心网友
我是不能帮你了
热心网友
MAN, GET A FAMILY